“Sir and Madam” (Politeness that’s Considered Rude)

Politeness that’s Considered Rude – Avoid Formal Titles

“Sir”, “Miss”, Or “Ma’me” are terms that are often used by employees to address customers. While the employee is only trying to be polite, the customer often feels that rather being honoured they feel old. Ideal customer relationships are more like friendships. We wouldn’t call our best friend “Sir”or “Ma’me” because it creates a distance rather than a bond. In other words, when talking to customers, you can never be too polite, but you can be too formal.

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Written By Jeff Mowatt (original content – not AI generated)

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